Someone asked us recently what makes an island beach bride so different and special. There are a few traits that seem to be especially true for the lovely ladies we’ve met who decided to get married on a beach, whether St. John, St. Thomas, one of the surrounding cays or even Virgin Gorda:
She cherishes the beauty of the Caribbean - Perhaps she times her barefoot beach wedding for a perfect sunset. She may wear an orchid or hibiscus in her hair and a St. John hook bracelet on her wrist. The modern beach bride may go barefoot or insist on stilettos, but loves the warmth of the sun on her skin and the pleasure of a soft sandy beach. She asks for a wedding pose that equally shows off her and the beautiful tropical scenery – on her favorite island. And in every photo, her own inner beauty shines. She was born to be a modern beach bride.
She visibly enjoys life to the fullest – Maybe she shares her wedding cake with strangers at a local restaurant and breaks out in an impromptu dance for their pleasure . Or maybe it’s the vibrant colors she chooses for her bouquet or the bushwhackers she chooses instead of champagne. When she drives up with her well-heeled groom on a motorcycle in little Cruz Bay and very late for her own wedding, we know she’s already on island time and we forgive her just this once. 
She meets obstacles with creativity- Little problems are opportunities to be different for the modern beach bride. When a family member can’t attend, she keeps them present in the photo frame laying nearby in the sand or added digitally to her wedding images. If her hair becomes unruly, she shakes it out and lets it fly. Instead of skipping the floral bouquets and decorations because of an allergy, she incorporates origami flowers, centerpieces and a cake-top into the festivities, making a vivid personal statement and being eco-friendly too. Island brides know how to adapt.
She values tradition on the beach - Anything is possible and as an island beach bride, she makes it happen her way. Musicians at a beach wedding and hundreds of yards of white tulle – it’s her wedding, so why not? She can even find a ways to have a traditional Jewish ceremony under a beachfront Chuppah, with colorful Ketubah signing ceremony at the waters edge. A modern beach bride is a planner. She knows in her heart there is some way to have a traditional ceremony and still have the island twist she wants. 
A wedding on a little island is far away from home, but home and family is never far away. Phone calls and Skype right from the ceremony, Facebook photos and large posters for their reception at home a week or two later all help.
When the family can participate in person at the ceremony – well that’s even better and the celebration is one that everyone will remember for their entire lifetime.
Modern beach brides come in all sizes and all ages and they all love their islands. Their beauty is lit from within and is a joy to behold. We love them – every one!
Until later,
Karin and Bob Schlesinger
Your Island Photographers






















I hope you will enjoy my occasional ramblings and find useful information you can use here. I have started this blog to share with you things I have learned over the years from photographing here in the Caribbean – everything from tips for clients wanting a very special vacation portrait or brides worrying about their wedding day, to my experiences of removing pesky water spots from my camera sensors. The island is my studio and photography is my life!



